make time-related socket options overridable by arch bits files

make time-related socket options overridable by arch bits files

SO_RCVTIMEO and SO_SNDTIMEO already were, but only in aggregate with
SO_DEBUG and all of the other low/traditional options that varied per
arch. SO_TIMESTAMP* are newly overridable. the two groups have to be
done separately since mips64 and powerpc64 will override the former
but not the latter.

at some point this should be cleaned up to use bits headers more
idiomatically.