new lock algorithm with state and congestion count in one atomic int

new lock algorithm with state and congestion count in one atomic int

A variant of this new lock algorithm has been presented at SAC'16, see
https://hal.inria.fr/hal-01304108. A full version of that paper is
available at https://hal.inria.fr/hal-01236734.

The main motivation of this is to improve on the safety of the basic lock
implementation in musl. This is achieved by squeezing a lock flag and a
congestion count (= threads inside the critical section) into a single
int. Thereby an unlock operation does exactly one memory
transfer (a_fetch_add) and never touches the value again, but still
detects if a waiter has to be woken up.

This is a fix of a use-after-free bug in pthread_detach that had
temporarily been patched. Therefore this patch also reverts

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This is also the only place where internal knowledge of the lock
algorithm is used.

The main price for the improved safety is a little bit larger code.

Under high congestion, the scheduling behavior will be different
compared to the previous algorithm. In that case, a successful
put-to-sleep may appear out of order compared to the arrival in the
critical section.