fix some bugs in setxid and update setrlimit to use __synccall

fix some bugs in setxid and update setrlimit to use __synccall

setrlimit is supposed to be per-process, not per-thread, but again
linux gets it wrong. work around this in userspace. not only is it
needed for correctness; setxid also depends on the resource limits for
all threads being the same to avoid situations where temporarily
unlimiting the limit succeeds in some threads but fails in others.